PYS No. 94 – 2nd Sept’2018, Sunday….!!
 
Topic – “GO EGO! GO”.
 
Venue – Gate No. 5, Beside Convention Centre, Andhjan Mandal Gali, GMDC Ground, Near Helmet Circle, 132 Feet Ring Road, Memnagar, Ahmedabad.
 
Sambodhan by 
Founder of PYS….!!
Thunder of Youth….!!
Wonder of Jinshaashan….!!
UPKAARI GURUDEV PUJYA ACHARYA DEV SHRIMADVIJAY UDAYVALLABHSURISHWARJI MAHARAJA….!! 👏👏🙌🙌🙏🙏
 
Maanso shehar ma vasta hoi chhe. Bija desho ma farva jataa hoi chhe.
Laagni ne pann thaai farvaa jaiye.
Ek taapu par.
Namrata no bhaav chhe, prem, krodh, irshya, laalach pann bhega gaya.
Prem badha ne samjaave chhe.
Aapne badha saathe gothvaai jaiye.
Ek nahi aavyo aama – ae hato – AHANKAAR (EGO)….!!
Angat swajan toh aa chhe aapno.
Badha ae prem ne kidhu – aene (aham) chhodi de – ane tu (Prem)aavi jaa.
Prem Ane aham banne jal-smaran thayaa.
Bija diwas news aavya – Nirjan pann taapu par Prem nu mrutyu aham na kaarane.
Aavu ketli badhi vaar thai chhe – aapna ketla badha sambandho aavi ri te mrutyu paame chhe.
Eg: Jaino ni Oli ma Shripal-Mayna no raas vanchaai chhe.
Aena upar ni naani story.
Pita no Prem toote chhe aham na kaarane.
Ghanaa aava kaamo ma Shaheed thataa hoi chhe pann potaani ideology maathi khastha nathi.
Freedom fighters ni story aavij hati.
“Ame maafi ane maut vachhe farak nathi jotaa.”
Presentation –
CHAPTER NO. 1 –
TYPES OF EGO –
1) Male ego – dynamic, destructive
2) Female ego – diversification, domination
Eg of a couple, fight between a husband and a wife.
Eg – real story – Gir jungle – between lion & lioness.
Male does not give respect – (udaarta thi maan) to female.
Female does not give required due to male.
Hence, issues crop up at home due to misunderstanding & egoistic nature.
Practical thavaanu aavaa ma ane aham ne vachhe na lavaai.
Mutual understanding should play well always.
If you go in ego then mutual understanding does not work.
3) leader ego – it creates deafness
Koi ni salaah le nahi, koi nu saambhle nahi.
He requires salaah the most, but he accepts the least.
Leader chhe pann quality nathi. Deafness aavi jaai. Sambhlaatu nathi.
Saamblis, sweekaris ane sudhaaris pann nahi.
4) follower ego – it creates blindness
Blind following hovu jaiye pann jaanya pachhi j.
Blindness khotu hoi toh follow na karaai.
You follow someone someone so blindly that you come to know what is right.
5) Instigated ego – utsaahit ego.
Eg of boy & his dad – he does not allow his son to take car.
Na paadvaa thi ego instigate thaai chhe chhokra no.
Kok chadaave toh chadhi nahi javaanu.
6) Inflated ego – bharaavo thato jaai, fugaavo thato jaai.
Baahar tame na muki shako.
Aaj inflated ego hoi chhe.
Eg of David Warner & Steven Smith.
Noone goes into root cause. Je hamesha Jeet ta aavya hoi ane pachhi jeeti na shakta hoi toh aava aada avla rasta thi aagal vadhvaani koshish kare.
7) Inflammatory ego – highly inflammable.
Statement saame statement aave, inflammable ego instigate thaai ae loko no.
Moto bhadko ek saathe thaai.
Eg of Ravana-Hanuman.
Haath ma aavta success nikli jaai chhe ego ne kaarane.
8) General ego – swaabhaavik ego.
Ae swaabhik ri te thai jaai. Bike stunts kare ego santoshva maate.
Knowledge share karvu alag hoi chhe pann
Attitude personality maathi vyakt thati hoi.
Koi pann saari cheej maari paase hoi toh mane bijaa ne bataadvaanu mann thaai chhe.
Eg of an individual – who is offered 12 lacs package but does not accept due to ego – aatla naana package ma kon jaai. Bhaai potaanu modhu toh jo.
Potaani kaabilyaat joi ne decision levaai.
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CHAPTER NO. 2 –
EGO CAUSES –
1) Power – Sattaa haath ma aave tyaare nasho chadhe.
Eg of Shivaji Maharaj, Nathalaal.
Bohu nassebdaar hoi ene j power ga le utre.
Baaki ae power ma patan thaai.
2) Wealth – paisa no nasho.
Abhimaan aavi jaai, paisa ni garmi hoi.
 
Eg of what we do on signal when we see a beggar.
If we don’t give money, it’s still ok once but should not shoo away arrogantly.
 
3) Knowledge – Gnyaan vadhtu jaai pann aena lidhe garmi aave.
Balidaan, etc. badhu jatu thaai chhe. Ane parivaar tu te chhe.
Diplomacy aavad vi joiye. Samjaavatt thi kaam thavu joiye.
4) Superiority – superiority hoi tyaare ego aave chhe.
Eg of airplane – a lady v/s a disabled person.
Fact story – a soldier was treated this way by a knowledgeable, superior, intellectual lady.
Dignified ri te airhostess soldier ne A class ma respect thi moklaave chhe.
Ane peli lady ae potaanu j naak kapaavyu.
5) Consistent success – consistently success maltu reh toh problem aave, failure pachaavi na shako.
Privileged raheso if you fail in life atleast it will help you remain grounded.
Odd reactions aave jyaare consistent success ma le tyaare.
CHAPTER NO. 3 –
SYMPTOMS OF EGO –
1) Arrogance & 2) Attitude.
Eg of a well to do person with his/her maid.
Stuff na hoi pann stiffness hoi. Ego na kaarane arrogance aave, attitude aavi jaai.
3) Boasting & 4) Blaming.
Boasting blaming psychology.
Eg of an arrogant captain. He does not take blame but passes on the blame on others.
5) Clash & 6) Claiming.
Aapna hataa aetle thayu, ego clash continues thaai.
Clashes ghar ma pann thataa rahe.
Success is a mithaai, badha saathe mali ne khaai.
Pariksha aekla ae aapvaani hoi chhe.
Boss tells you what work is to be done.
Leader shows you why & how the work is to be done.
7) Defamation & 8) Destruction.
Political parties aa karta hoi chhe.
Why to prove for others by defaming or destructing others..?
Udaarta hovi j joiye k koine defame na karaai.
Eg of Winston Churchill when he went to Russia.
Russian media had asked him how is your Govt of Europe..?
He had told my Govt is very good.
EGO HAS TRIPLE STRENGTH BUT NO VISION.
CHAPTER NO. 4 –
EGO NA REACTIONS –
1) You can’t see proper when there is foggy nature.
Fog ma dekhaavanu ochhu thaai.
Bhatkaai tyaare khabar pade.
Potaana par karela bijaana na upkaar ne bhulo nahi.
NEVER FORGET THEM WHO RAISED YOU.
Success aem nem nathi maltu.
Eg of Sachin Tendulkar – with his coach Ramakant Achrekar.
You are not meant to watch – You are meant to play & others will watch you.
2) You can’t see self mistake & others obligation.
Eg of Harvard University.
Eg of a father-mother who went to Harvard University.
They were none other than Mr & Mrs Stanford who then started Stanford University as they were not heard in Harvard University and were asked to go away.
In this manner, Harvard University themselves gave birth to their competitors.
F – Fault
O – Obstacles
G – Grace
CHAPTER NO. 5 –
HOW TO STABILIZE THIS EGO –
1) Look within yourself – tamaari anaavdat badhu joi ne niklo.
SWOT analysis – STRENGTH WEAKNESS OPPORTUNITY THREAT.
 
Khaali strength, opportunity aekla na jovaai.
 
Aaj 4 saathe bhega thaai tyaare proper result ma le chhe. Tyaare j saacha rasta javaai chhe.
 
Knowing my ignorance is true knowledge.
 
Mane je aavde chhe ae theek chhe.
Mane je nathi aavadtu ae jaani shaaku toh j aagal aavis.
2) Look beyond yourself –
Eg of Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel, Hirubhai Patel.
Of during India/Pakistan Partition – Thorat saaheb.
He gave importance to Gandhiji.
Give importance to big objectives.
3) Look behind yourself – Kon chhe tamaari paachal. Jena peethbal thi tame aagal vadhya.
Eg of Bhuvanbhanusurishwerji Maharaja & Rushabhdasbhai Chennai.
Eg of a son & father.
 
Look behind – never forget who have helped you always.
 
Eg of Cristiano Ronaldo – his friend Alberto Stuart.
Real fact story.
Alberto had intentionally helped Ronaldo in that critical match.
 
Krutagna guna kyaare pann khovo nahi.
4) Strike the corner –
Khunaa ma rehvaama maja chhe. Khunaa ma rehvaanu. Negligence is many times helpful.
Eg of Arjuna & Karna.
Khunaa maathi pann kaam thaai chhe. Khunaa ne pann enjoy karvaano.
Eg of Gurucharan Das – his book – Difficulties of being Good.
5) Go for traditions & philosophies.
Credit na collect karaai – pass on karta raho. Toh j game chaalu rahese.
Eg of Gujarati Sahitya Sabha – by Gandhiji.
Sir Chinubhai.
MAGAJ – SABHA PAASE NATHI HOTU.
MAGAJ – EK MAANAS PAASE J HOI.
6) Stay Grounded –
Dharti par raheta sikho. Pag toh dharti par j raakhvaana.
Pehla corner ma rehvaanu toh j centre ma avaai.
Always remain grounded whatever the circumstances are.
FAITH BEGINS WHEN/WHERE INTELLECT ENDS.
Eg of Ghachhadhipati Acharya Dev Shrimadvijay Jayghoshsurishwerji Maharaja.
Today on 8th birthday Gurudev remembered his continuous aashirwad that PYS sessions has reached this far.
Eg of king/bharvaad.
Raja nu krupa drashti thai aetle mantri bani gaya. Pann bhaan rahevu joiye ke mul ma bharvaad chhe.
DREAM BIG ni psychology, STAY LOW pann rehta aavadvu joiye.
Mul ma hu kon chhu aenu bhaan rehvu joiye.
Mehnat ni paachal grace hoi chhe.
“COUNTDOWN TO PYS NO. 100….!!”
 
*Next PYS sessions* –
PYS Session No. 95 – 30th Sept’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 96 – 14th Oct’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 97 – 28th Oct’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 98 – 18th Nov’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 99 – 9th Dec’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 100 – 23rd Dec’2018, Sunday.
 
PYS… AN UNSTOPPABLE JOURNEY….!!
 
SHALL CONTINUE FROM JANUARY 2019.
 
Jainam Jayati Shaashanam..!!
“Yugo Sudhi Jhal Halse BhuvanBhanu Na Ajwaala”
🙌🙌👏👏🙏🙏
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