PYS No. 95 – 30th Sept’2018, Sunday….!!
Topic – “RIGHT TO CHOICE”.
Venue – Gate No. 5, Beside Convention Centre, Andhjan Mandal Gali, GMDC Ground, Near Helmet Circle, 132 Feet Ring Road, Memnagar, Ahmedabad.
Founder of PYS….!!
Thunder of Youth….!!
Wonder of Jinshaashan….!!
Today’s world & people’s mentality, trend – MY LIFE, MY CHOICE.
Kaka nu naam hatu Sumanbhai. Lagan na 40 varas pura thayaa. Wife maate kai lai aavu. Buckle lai aavu.
Wife ne na gamyu, ae kevu lai aavya.
Aemna wife ae kidhu koi ne lai javaai ne saathe.
Aava diwase Suspense raakhi ne expense karvaanu mann thaai.
Mane khyaal chhe k Choice na maamla ma maaro itihaas kharaab rahyo chhe chhella 40 varas thi.
Choice ek haq ane choice ek kalaa banne alag chhe.
Ultimately Choice ek kalaa (art) chhe.
Features & family ma tamne choice nathi malti.
Apaan ne choice nathi maltu aema. Gift ma j ma le chhe. Je pann status ma le chhe ae choice ni bahaar ni vastu chhe.
Jya pasandgi nathi malti tyaa comparison pann na karaai.
Enjoy whatever you have got.
You get many options once you are 14-15 years. College, jobs, etc.
There are many options available but then you have to make a choice.
Your choice of –
3) career options
4) work place
6) behaviour, practices, attitude.
5) money (pocket money)
6) freedom (time)
7) false beliefs & ideals
Neighbours – how they are. How does they help you for your upliftment.
Ghar aavi ri te choice kari ne laiye toh jeevan ma upar avaai.
Jobs – salary ane scope.
Ghanaa salary ne priority aape chhe ghanaa scope ne priority aape chhe.
“CHOICES TAMNE BANAAVE CHHE”.
“YOUR CHOICES MAKE YOU & DEFINE YOUR CHARACTER”.
PRIORITY LEVEL…DEPENDS ON YOU…
Jevi ri te lunch ma hoi – by default you get dal, roti, rice.
“BHUSAWAL EXPRESS” – CHOICE nu aavu chhe.
Train nikle Mumbai thi straight Surat taraf – pann achanak 1 station pehla Udhna thi sharp right maari ne siddhi Bhusawal.
Aetle ekdum offtrack thai jaai life.
Khota ideals, idols, ideologies – aava choices thi life bagde chhe.
Aama thaap khaao toh life bagdi samjho.
Top 10 icons & idols – from hollywood, bollywood, sportspersons.
Ek pann saara naam nahi. Adarsh ma bilkul pann na lai sakaai.
Aadarsho pakkaa karva ma lose padya toh gaya samaj jo.
When you choose your ideals & icons, that makes a lot of differences in your life.
Eg of Bhuvanbhanusurishwerji Maharaja.
At age of 76 years.
Ghanaa saras slogan ma le chhe – 24 kalaak ma 26 kalaak nu kaam raakhvaanu. Kaam karvaana pann.
Adarsh vyakti – Kumarpalbhai V Shah.
Even PM Narendra Modiji had given example of him & was his role model.
2) Ideology – vichaar sarni.
Only Medicine left with you is self control & self restraint.
Capitalism, socialism, humanism, terrorism, etc.
Aa badhi ideology chhe.
Kai pakdo chho ae ri te tamaari life valaank le chhe.
When you start on the path of one of these ideologies, other will automatically be sidelined.
Sajjanta ni priority lo toh swatantra ni priority maathi nikli jase.
Supreme Court su fatafat chukaada aape chhe. Last 1-2 week ma.
Contempt of court na hisaabe koi boltu nathi.
Section 497 radd kari naakhyu.
Aapne aapno PLEDGE bhuli gaya chhe.
Morals 1000 varso junaa chhe jyaare tamaaru bandharan khaali 68 varso j juna chhe.
Koi ae 1000 varso ma koi sudhaara nathi karya ane tame immediate karva laagya.
Eg of Bakri ID – ek religion ke chhe kaapo, ane ek religion ke chhe nahi kaapo.
Ek baaju kevaai chhe – aa religious nathi pann mane ko ae kevi ri te shakya chhe.
Aa badha ma International forces kaam kare chhe. Samji raakhjo. Aavnaara diwaso bohu kharaab chhe.
Law colleges ma – ethos, traditional values na topics hova joiye.
Supreme Court – vyabhichaar ne clear kare chhe.
High Court na paade chhe pann Supreme Court haa paadi de chhe.
Personal ideology pann kaam kari jaai chhe.
“HA VE TAMNE BACHAAVNAAR FAKT TAME…!!”.
“ALL RIGHTS ARE SUBJECT TO RESTRICTIONS….!!”.
Cultural heritage sachvaai aevi ri te kaayda gadva & gadaava joiye.
Mitra ane Paatra – While choosing a friend & While choosing a life partner.
Aana par tamaari life depend kare chhe. Whether it will go the right way or wrong way.
When you go for a choice for marital life (paatra ni pasandgi) –
6 similarities –
1) age wise (similar age group),
2) feature wise (looks),
3) financial status wise,
4) language wise,
5) caste wise,
6) likes wise.
Aa Acharya Haribhadrasuri M.s ni “DHARMABINDU naam na granth ma aa 6 steps aapela.
Khaali roop ane rupya paachal gaya toh life bagdi samaj jo.
Looks ane likes ma khaali na javaai pann saathe aa 6 mud-da ni samaanta hovi joiye.
If you cannot see mentality, aggression & attitude before looks & money, you end up selecting inappropriate partner.
Be cautious – Nature..
While selecting – Mentality..Attitude..
Eg – Pacific – small boat – no life boat.
Don’t know – can’t swim.
YOUR NATURE = YOUR FUTURE.
How to select your friend circle…..!!
1) Why requirement of a friend?
Can easily open up with a friend & share as there is difference in age group with parents.
A good book is a good friend & a good friend is a good book. Man is a social animal.
2) What is a definition of a friend?
Anyone with whom you can share your any thoughts & do not require to say that pls don’t tell anyone.
A guide, helper to show us a path. Faithful, real, near & dear.
Secrets, Thanks, Helpful, Brother/sister, Kalyan Mitra.
3) Types of friends –
I am free to perish myself.
4) Variety of Friends –
a) Guest friends – only meet in specific event – banne hoi sa ke – good & bad demarcation.
b) Pest friends – ones who can inculcate all bad habits in you – bad demarcation.
c) Best friends – ones who help you grow – good demarcation.
When friendship hurts..!! -A book by US Author.
d) Promise breaker.
Ones who come to you & tell others secrets.
They can go out & tell your secrets too.
e) Double crosser friend.
Alternatively people are his/her best friend.
f) Self absorber friend.
Ones who love your money, bikes, etc. Ones who only encashes you.
g) Competitor friend.
h) Disclosure friend.
FRIENDS NEVER HURT….!!
Where there is friendship, you cannot get hurt.
Mitra ni choice karti vakhte dhyaan raakhvu pade.
Risky friends – Dil o jaan thi pramaanik hoi – Bagaadva maate.
Mitra ni quality –
Choose the ones who break your promise to protect you from I’ll habits & not to protect you from your parents.
Such promise breakers are better than life breakers.
Don’t be friends with those who say yes to all things that you say.
They should be brave enough to say No to you when you are doing something wrong.
Don’t be friends with someone who will meet you in private. They will not meet you in open.
When he asks for a risky favour – be aware.
Best friends – vaare vaare badlaai nahi. Aajkal nathi maltaa.
FB kholo toh request par 300 ma li sa ke pann ek pann aevo na hoi je 30 varas chaale.
Best friends – permanent address.
1) What are group discussion topics?
Aajkal Group discussion nu biju naam Group chat chhe.
Group discussion maathi j tayyaar thavaai.
Richness na hoi discussion ma pann absolutely rubbish aj hoi.
You are bound to be friendless with below.
2) What are group activities?
Reading, research about future topics.
3) What is his free time activity?
Eg of Bhagat Singh – during time of his hanging – he was reading book of Russian philosopher Lenin.
He was swasth not depressed, not even aggressive.
Eg of Gandhiji, Veer Savarkar, Subhash Chandra Bose.
Ae loko jail ma desh bhakti ni book, kavita o lakhta.
Diwaalo par nakh thi kotri ne lakhta.
4) Multifold personality.
a) Caring personality.
Brahman pandits – Raghunath Shiromani, Nimay.
Hindi bhaashya ni utkrushta maitri rachna.
Maaro dost naaraaj na thaai aevi quality je raakhe aene j saachho dost kehvaai.
b) Sharing personality.
c) Daring personality.
Not good for you, aevu kai pann sha ke.
It should be at times, not at all times.
d) Bearing personality.
Ek bija ne kharaab na laage aevi ri te bear kari sha ke.
There are times when the maintenance charges are more than construction charges.
e) Inspiring personality.
“FRIEND IS A PARTIAL GUARDIAN.”
Aadrakumar – Abhaykumar.
Quotation of Abhaykumar – jene maari yaad aavi ane maara friend banvu chhe ae saaro aatma hase j.
Impact of friends –
Your achievements are based on your quality of activities,
Your Activity is based on your quality of plans,
Your plan is based on your quality of thoughts,
The people who surround you define your thoughts,
So choose your circle of friends carefully for success.
Someone asked in session – give us topics for discussion.
BIKE V/s BICYCLE.
COLA V/s CHAAS.
BISCUIT V/s KHAKHRA.
BREAD V/s KHAKHRA.
CASH V/s CASHLESS.
HOUSE V/s COLLEGE.
COLLEGE (UNIVERSITY) V/s PYS.
BEING A GOOD FRIEND IS SURELY BEING LIKE A GOOD PERSON.
Groups ma aaj thi koi pann kharaab cheej nahi aave ane forward nahi karo. Ae Sankalp karo.
Eg of Rajnibhai – Shantibhai. 1990s.
Rajnibhai no Abhishek.
Palitana ma shuddhikaran maate.
Ae 15 youngsters hataa,
today they are 600 youngsters.
Ae group nahi pann SAMKIT YUVAK MANDAL.
Eg – Hemratnasurishwerji Maharaja.
He had prepared a team of youngsters.
PRARTHANA YUVAK MANDAL.
Eg – Mahabodhisurishwerji Maharaja.
Vihaar Seva Group Sammelan.
1000 people have gathered today for this important activity.
Eg – of girls – they provide education to 400 underprivileged students.
Self made teachers.
1988 – Arvindbhai Manilal Parekh, Rajendrabhai Kumar Joshi.
1990s thi friendship.
Aaje pann friendship aetli j kaayam chhe.
Their work on Bakri ID in West Bengal.
Al-Kabeer Exports – 40kms away from Hyderabad.
Ek diwaso ma hajaaro buffaloes kapaai jaai.
Aa loko saame padya hataa legally.
After defence lobby – meat lobby is the strongest in India.
Maare biju kai kevaani jarurat nathi.
We require Govt to revise the Meat Export Policy in India.
Supreme Court were shocked how they gave new perfect figures & quashed incorrect figures which were in favour of cattle slaughter.
1958 – Supreme Court nu clause State Govt cannot allow stay on slaughter of cattle was reversed.
Arvindbhai Rajendrabhai ne ideals tarike raakho.
Tamaara circles ne activate karo.
“PEOPLE SAY YOUTH ARE USELESS, BUT I SAY YOUTH IS USED LESS”.
Aa saara kaamo, Desh-heet na kaamo haath ma lo.
NEXT SESSION – PYS NO. 96 –
DISCOVERING LOST CAUSES.
“COUNTDOWN TO PYS NO. 100….!!”
*Next PYS sessions* –
PYS Session No. 96 – 14th Oct’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 97 – 28th Oct’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 98 – 18th Nov’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 99 – 9th Dec’2018, Sunday.
PYS Session No. 100 – 23rd Dec’2018, Sunday.
PYS… AN UNSTOPPABLE JOURNEY….!!
SHALL CONTINUE FROM JANUARY 2019.
Jainam Jayati Shaashanam..!!
“Yugo Sudhi Jhal Halse BhuvanBhanu Na Ajwaala”